Sunday StoryโฆYour Best
Isnโt good enough. It just isnโt. Iโm sorry; I know we tell our kidsโฆโtry your best, thatโs all that mattersโ. But it isnโt all that matters. As a matter of fact, I canโt recall ever getting the Tried his Best award. Iโve gotten blue ribbons, gold medals, championship belts and honorable mention awards but never a tried his best certificate.
My coach, CJ Martin at CrossFit Invictus, told me onceโฆโFull Effort is Full Victory.โ (Itโs part of a quote from Gandhi by the way.) Full Effort. Not best effort. This is not a rationale for not winning by the way. I canโt do anything about my opponentโs efforts, the weather or the playing field. I canโt control the things I canโt control. All I can control is my effort. And not just the effort on game day. The effort 6 months before game day. Every day in every practice, in every attempt, did I provide my full effort, not my best effort? Was I focused in my mind and body or was I somewhere else? Full effort.
You are probably thinking to yourself about nowโฆโhow does this apply to me? I donโt compete. Iโm not a world class athlete.โ
Your life is a battle. Every day is a fight between the right way and the easy way. Every day you get to choose to put forth your full effort or your best effort. I did my best is what second place says. You can rationalize and compromise and decide you arenโt going to speak the truth todayโฆyou are going to do your best. Or you can pull your boots on look life dead center and give full effort. You can speak the truth. You can own your feelings. You can grab the right way and throw it over your shoulder and kick the easy way to the curb.
We all have things we arenโtโ doing. Truths we arenโt speaking. Stuff that we arenโt facing because we are afraid of the consequencesโฆit isnโt the right time, I donโt want to hurt someoneโs feelings yet. Is that full effortโฆ.full effort to stand in the world whole and complete? Full effort to be honest and tell the truth?
Your life depends on your full effort. Your full effort to confront the demons of mediocrity, compromise, and cop outs. At the end your gravestone can read โhe tried his bestโ or โhe played full outโ. The choice is yours.
Full effort is hard. Best effort is a cop out. Full effort is full victory. Best effort is a loser. Win the war between the right way and the easy way.
John Mariotti
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